Many leaders have a difficult time boosting morale and retaining the loyalty of their employees. Some of them simply have a difficult time relating to their workers and understanding what they need. However, some leaders have big egos that undermine their authority and cause them to lose the support of their workers. It is very important to keep your ego in check if you are a leader.

Maintaining the respect of your employees is a key part of leadership. Unfortunately, there are a number of ways that your ego can prevent you from doing so. Here are some common ego mistakes that you will need to be aware of.

Refusing to Delegate

Some leaders have flat-out admitted that they are control freaks, but refuse to change. However, most leaders that fail to delegate decision-making authority cannot admit their problem. This can harm employee morale.

Employees want to feel like they are part of the decision-making process. You should try to give them some responsibility to make them feel like they are actually part of the team. Another benefit of delegation is that it frees your time up to focus on the most important things that the organization needs.

Only Listening to Positive Feedback

Another mistake that many leaders make is refusing to listen to feedback that they don’t want to hear. They want to be validated when they make the right decision, but deny any feedback that they aren’t doing things wrong.

There are two reasons this is a problem. First of all, you will end up refusing to make changes needed to improve as a leader. Your employees will become frustrated that you keep making the same mistakes, despite their efforts to let you know. They will also feel that you aren’t open to communicating with them and will inevitably become less likely to speak up in the future.

Seeking Like-Minded Employees

Many managers try to hire employees that are very similar to them. They find that these workers are more likely to give them the validation that they want to hear and easier to relate to.

You should try to avoid this temptation. Employees with different experiences and perspectives can notice problems that people with similar views may not. They can also bring fresh ideas to the table that you wouldn’t consider on your own.

Try to build a team with people with varying experiences, educational backgrounds and personality styles. You will need to work harder to understand them, but you will probably be glad that you took the risk in the beginning. Working with different people may be an awkward learning curve at first, but it enhances the quality of the team and helps you improve as a leader.

Having Trouble With Empathy

Many leaders are well-meaning and legitimately care about their employees. However, they have a hard time relating to them, which can lead to misunderstandings down the road. It is always important to understand how your words and actions impact others on your team. You will also need to remember what it was like when you were doing similar jobs and try to give them the support needed to thrive.

About the author: Kalen is a seasoned entrepreneur and former business consultant. He shares tips about leadership and business ownership such as those found here http://www.foxserv.net/how-to-inspire-your-team-and-win-their-trust/.

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